First time ever DH and I are both earning a good whack. For years I was the main earner - DH earned nothing (student and unemployed) or peanuts and worked shifts of long hours. We have money for the first time ever. We've moved in to a bigger house, nicer area. We are giving our family a really special christmas with a bit of spoiling going on
Problem is I feel guilty. So many of our friends are going though hard times. At least 2 we know of are losing their jobs in the NY, several are self-employed (builders) and the work has dried to a trickle. One of them came over on Monday night to deliver her DD for a sleepover - everything she looked at she would point out and say 'of course this year we're having to cut back' and 'with things as they are we can't afford to do that' etc. I ended up feeling like I needed to apologise
How to cope with this? I feel desperately sorry for people in dire straits but how do I stop feeling guilty?
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How do you deal with being well-off atm and the inevitable guilt?
Ormirian · 23/12/2010 08:52
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