Really that's all there is to it. He left a few days ago after a series of rows about how much he was going out. We have a 16 month DS who wakes twice at night and only wants me so I'm kind of 'stuck' in at night so I can settle him. Thsi situatiob arose through a lot of circumstances.
Anyway, he booked loads of over night boozy nights out then arranged to go to his dad's this weekend, leaving tonight, which is my birthday.
I snapped and we had a big row and he left a cpuple pf days ago because he 'needed time to think'. Only text has been to tell me he doesn't miss me, which I'm not surprised about as he's out with his fucking mates and staying with single friends playing Xbox all evening.
I'm a SAHM but now looking for a part time job so me and the wee one have money.
Where do I go from here? We haven't taked about the legal side/contact/finances etc. We don't have any 'stuff' to argue over really, have a bit of savings. I'm fine with housing, thankfully that's not a problem but contact is a worry. As DS only wants me at night and I'm still BF I presume he can't have him over night (which is fucking brilliant for him).
Where do I go from here? No birthday text yet although I know he'll have started work so would've been up for hours.
FUCKING COCK.
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DH has left. it's my birthday and I really fucking sad
mazfah · 17/12/2010 09:03
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