What do you really want for Christmas?

[aim4u2b]

I often hear people talking about the things they wish they could have from a relationship, whether that be an marital one or otherwise. Thing is wishing is useless! We need to be 100% certain of what we do want not what we don't want! What do I mean? Focusing on what we don't want just brings about more of the same. Trust me on this one. If we focus only on what we do want we will feel more confident & empowered to achieve those outcomes for all areas of our life. Give yourself the greatest gift this Christmas & start right now to work out what it is you really really want not what you don't want!

[gardenglory]

Good post.

[ItalianLady]

I have read your post twice and it really reads as you are contradicting yourself .

[allouttalove]

Nice thread and very true.....
However all I want for Christmas at this very point in time is:

1. A divorce
   
2. Happy children
   
3. A {no strings attached) shag with a fit, single, kind, caring, loving bloke
   

Don't think that's too much to ask.

[proudnscary]

Are you Geri Halliwell?

[BreakFree]

1. For him to just leave
   
2. For me to know what its like to be treated
   

properly again

1. Peace on Earth? Nah. Peace at home would do.

[bigchris]

Mercenary I know but I wish dh earned 10k more

[Ormirian]

I want what I have.

I just want a little more time to appreciate it and the realisation that I am really really lucky.

[NeverendingStoryteller]

I want my voluntary severence to be approved so I can financially justify having at least 3 more years as a SAHM, even though both of my kids will be at primary school.

[crazeeladeeuk]

I want my husband to appreciate what hes got =-(

[maktaitai]

I want my husband to be healthy. And in an ideal world, earning some money... but that's less important.

And I want a job.

[SparkleSoiree]

I want to clear my debt quicker than our plan currently reads.

[porkchops]

1. a new coffee pot
   
2. a mini tummy tuck without the pain or the op (magic wand?)
   
3. to make some interesting friends in the new country we're in
   

(These are just for me, selfish things. I want happiness and health things for the DCs and DH and family more)