Hi. Friend of mine is having a complete mid-life crisis.She is fourty.Married to fab guy,has young kids.
She has fallen BIG TIME for guy nearly twenty years younger.He fancies her too. Meeting up with her with other friend soon.Friend and I want to help her,she spills it all out to us.Asks our advice.What should we be telling her?!
I think she needs to tell her DH-it is an emotional affair as opposed to physical.Get counselling/Relate.Cut young guy out of her life and start making concrete decisions about what she wants out of life.Friend thinks she needs trial separation to think things through.
Her DH senses something is up.She can't continue like she is.Someone is going to find out/spill the beans.I want to help her but don't know how.She displays all the signs you usually see from men in this situation,says she never felt this way about someone before.
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woopsidaisy · 01/12/2010 13:06
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