I have received some excellent advice on here before regarding my husband's infidelity. It was recommended by many that I read the Shirley Glass book 'Not just Friends'. This has helped immensely and I realise I am stuck in a phase she describes as 'accusatory suffering'. I am over a year on from discovery, but somehow I still feel that if I completely move on from the pain and don't keep showing my husband how sad I still am, he will be completely exonorated. I realise this makes me sound a bit masochistic, I really do want to get better and feel happy and confident again, but can't help but feel that when he sees me completely healed, he may think he has got away with it! I know this is self-destructive but don't really know where to go from here. Thanks.
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