I have been in a relationship with my DP for 27 years and lived with him for most of that time. We have a DD, nearly 9.I have given up "proper"work to look after her as I thought it was the right thing to do. Luckily for me, DP has always been in well-paid work but has now lost his job and has started a business, into which he has sunk all of his redundancy money. This money has now run out and the business is on the verge of collapse. Inevitably, he wants me to bail him out as I have my own money and a property. I feel very disinclined to do so as he did not discuss setting up the business with me. Additionally, our relationship is, I feel, on the rocks. We have not shared a bed for years and I find it increasingly difficult to communicate with him. most of the time i am so angry i can barely look at him. My self-esteem is at an all-time low and i am now struggling to get back into well-paid work despite a string of qualifications and a faultless CV. Some of my friends tell me I should leave; others say I should stay and try to work things out. He's very difficult to talk to, being opinionated and stubborn, but to be fair, so am I. Any advice gratefully received!! Many thanks.
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