Ok alittle embarrassed by how paranoid i am but here goes.
Just over 6 months ago found Dh had fake facebook account, msn and yahoo, talking to women getting pics of them in underwear and looking at alot of porn. confronted him he apologised said would never do it again was about him not us and he hasnt done anything like it since.
Well just recently he has been giving this woman a lift to work on a sat (not every sat), he goes out of his way to get her and then takes her home. I dont like it realy but dont want to seem like the paranoid wife by demanding he doesnt take her. He is the manager and the more bums on seats the more work that gets done, targets are met and he gets his bonus ifswim. But she is tall, long blond hair and very attractive.
Now i am not proud of myself but i used to work with him and thats how we met and i have a very good friend who works there and i asked her what their relationship is like at work and she said she hasnt seen anything untoward but she wouldnt want this girl around her DH, she dresses very provocativly, short skirts low cut tops etcetc.
Ok so i do all the washing and it seems his pants have some, dont know how to put it but i think you all know what i mean in them.
Other then this there isnt anything i have noticed that is different other then he is VERY attentive at the moment. is this a good sign that nothing is going on?
What should i be looking out for re an affair bearing in mind that he didnt act any differently when he was staying up to talk to women on the internet.
sorry if this is alittle garbled could just do with some advise.
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Ray81 · 06/11/2010 18:22
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