Hi,
DH came home drunk last night and told me that he doesn't think we should carry on - married for 18 years, DC (one with special needs).
He says that although we love each other that isn't enough. There's a list of ongoing unresolved issues between us, such as the fact I choose to work part time (which he sees as inconvenient), our respective parents (his in particular are v difficult).
DH says that I'm sad all the time, not the person that he married, and that whatever he does he can't make me happy. He is also unsatisfied with our sex life. DH basically thinks that we should call it a day and be "best friends" rather than muddling along (don't a lot of long term couples?)
I would agree that I am often grumpy due to the stress of dealing with our DD (SN).
I don't want our marriage to end over this....but can we really recover? He says that he is prepared to try but tbh he seems so defeated already.
He seems so unsatisfied with his life, in particular his job, our problems with DD, and I think he is really looking for an easy way out. He's also just turned 40!
What can I do?
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DH thinks it's over
totallysadtoday · 31/10/2010 17:55
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