Hello everyone
Would like opinions on this please.
Have a difficult marriage but notsure for how much longer i can keep going with it now.
H is addicted to computer-plays on-line game runescape. This is his social life and this is where he gets all his 'joy' from. We dont go out-he never suggests doing anything with me.
i work full time, unsocial hours and I get very, very tired. I earn more than H and I pay the large mortgage £1000. He has a stressful job too but gets school hols off but tends to sit and play runescape-he may take younger son out.
I feel its coming to an end now as see no future because he really is not interested in me.
Im trying sort out work life as Ive just been relocated and its not working for me. i may have to take a lower paid job.
Ive joined social group (not dating) as I feel I need to get a life, when going out with work colleagues its all talk about work and I need something different.
I feel very low in mood.
My fear is having to sell, not being able to aford to buy again, will have to rent until money runs out. H wont leave house so would split 50/50. 2 boys 12y and 14y.
ATM feel I have no life, feel totally unloved, unwanted, very alone. I know the only person to make a change is me. (H does have aspergers traits)
Im 50 this year, so feel also if no change is made now i will just be left miserable as Im sure H will soon find a younger woman anyway.
Any advice from women who have felt so low and miserable in their relationships and decided to make huge changes.
Thanks for reading.
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