aaargh dont know how to put this, im in a long term relationship we have kids together. But at the moment we are at a sort of impasse, if thats the right word, where we have not made love for months. we dont talk about it cos if we do we argue. we get on ok in other respects. there are probably many reasons why we are in this situation now but for my part if he touches me in the night i freeze, i almost fight him off sometimes, it makes me feel nauseous. it feels scary to me. i also felt like this in a previous marriage which basically ended that marriage. i do enjoy sex, have had very fulfilling sexual relationships in the past. but its almost as if sex with a 'close' person is dificult for me. this is going to end my relationship if i dont do something.
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