Hi,
I am a 36 y/old man. I recently had a very brief, very intence affair with someone, it has all ended very messily, in that my wife found out and its become a painful situation all round, involving lots of people.
Please feel free at this stage to direct any verbal abuse at me, I'm kinda getting used to it, although I totally deserve it.
My wife and I have 2 kids together and I love my kids more than anything in the world. I know though that I don't love my wife anymore. She is a wonderful person, attractive, good fun, great mother and is great in so many ways. However, I have fallen out of love with her and have for a while.
My question though is should we stay together for the sake of the kids? Is it better to have 2 parents who love their kids but are apart, than have 2 parents who live under the same roof but the love has gone?
Hope there is some sense out there, cause right now i don't know whether I am coming or going.
George
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Should I stay in my marriage for the kids?
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