I've drunk a bit to go to sleep but it's not working. So I'm lurking onmumsnet.
Left my country ten years ago. Now I'm oop norf. See I made a funny. I couldn't wait to leave and I was pregnant, my husband had a job so up I came. He was working long unsocial hours and I was taking care of my daughter cos someone had to and I didn't hace a job, right? I have a son too, born thre years later.
He has a crush on someone at work. A silly little bint with a carreer. Younger, I don't have a carreer. I have a part time job through his connections. I tried getting a promotion but my cv is too flimsy they said.
My kids are little. They start school tomorrow. My son has his birthday in a month. My husband is obsessed with this other woman and says he cant get her out of his mind. She is a bitch but I cant say that because apparently she is a really good person. Not as good as me, but I am TOO perfect. Thats what he says. He wont sleep with me. He doesn't want to leave. He doesn't want to explain to the kids. He want a to stay at home obsessed with the bitch and be there for the kids.
So either I kick him out. Then I am a single mum in a country i do not know with no job prospects and I have to tell the kids. The litle one is six. He will not understand.
Or I stay at home with someone who is obsessed with someone else. He says he is trying to get over it but he can't.
I'm being a doormat right? Except I don't know what to do. I have acquaintances here but none that I could dump all this onto. Maybe someone will read this. He wants to come with me to take them to school tomorrow. It doesn't sound good, right?
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kittybam · 06/09/2010 03:55
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