DP usually goes out with the boys on a Friday night. He hasn't said otherwise so today when he was at work I text him and said, are you seeing the lads tomorrow night, cos I was going to arrange to go for a meal with one of my friends if I wasn't seeing him.
He replied saying that no he wasn't, he was going to his ex's leaving do for a couple of drinks then going home and then asked if I minded.
I'm going to have to grit my teeth and say I don't mind aren't I.
I suppose what does make me mind is a) he hates her for what she did to him and says she was a complete bitch, so why is he going and b) would he have mentioned it to me if I hadn't asked what he was doing and just presumed he would be out with his friends as would be usual for a friday night.
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I have to be OK with this don't I?
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hidetheelephant · 02/09/2010 16:13
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