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trying4bump · 28/08/2005 12:39

I was with my ex dp for 3 years and we had everything togather. We have our own flat and were engaged but we had problems like everyone else and they were mainly down to me being possesive.

We split up a while back and i was with someone else who wanted us to start a family.I thought this was what i wanted but its not and now im pregnant to him but i dont have any feelings for the father of my baby.

I've moved back to the flat i have with my ex dp and he's still living there. We are still friends and he says i can stay as long as i want.
The trouble is i dont think i can have this baby with a man i have no feelings for and dont want to give it a go as i know its not what i want.
I've asked my ex dp if there is any chance for us to sort things out but he says at the moment he cant see that happening, but he's still willing to go on a holiday we have booked for january.

Has anyone got any advice or been in a simalar situation?
sorry its long but i need to get this off my chest

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elsmommy · 28/08/2005 12:55

I don't know what to say, just bumping this for you

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swamp · 28/08/2005 13:01

does your ex dp know about the baby?

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trying4bump · 28/08/2005 13:16

yes my ex dp knows that im pregnant. I cant believe ive made such a mess of things

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