hi- I have namechanged for this as rl friends are on here.
my 1st boyfriend ended up marrying one of friends (not a close friend just someone i see and say hello to kind of thing). They have two children and have been married 7 years. I have 3 children and have been married for the same amount of time.
I'm happily married and my dh is close friends with my ex boyf. (just to let you know i never slept with my ex we were young and i wouldn't we were only together a yr) anyway in the last yr we have started going on double dates which have been nice, however the ex has started coming on to me, saying we have unfinished business etc, he wants me etc. we went away for the weekend a few weekends back and i went back to our room to get my flip flops as my feet were killing, i opened the door to leave and go back down to the bar where everyone else was and ex was outside, nothing happened apart from a quick fumble no kissing etc, but i am ashamed to say i enjoyed it and can't stop thinking about him.
I am happily married, my husband is amazing and i am gutted this has happened, but why do i feel like it? i don't want to do as my kinky knickers are wanting my ex so much but my realistic loving wife side would never do anything to hurt my family.
is this a case of wanting what you can't/shouldn't have? I really need some perspective on this.
TIA
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changingfortoday · 17/08/2010 11:19
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