I'm in my mid thirties and feel so raw with continuing hatred for him.
Since they married 16 years ago he has controlled my mother to the point where she has to almost ask permission to see me.
She is clever, has a fantastic career and a strong air of authority, so why does she allow this man to dictate when she can and can't see me. In an ideal world for him, life would be perfect if I didn't exist.
How do I accept this situation is not going to change? I feel a deep sense of rejection but also feel now is the time for me to grow up and just accept this the way things will remain - just wish it didn't hurt so much though.
I'm an only child, is this spoilt brat syndrome? I still wail when she gives into him..how do I snap out of it, I'm too old for this shit.
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grumpygrumps · 16/08/2010 22:22
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