Yesterday ex asked me to try again. I have name changed as my story is well documented and I do not wish to be harangued for being the idiot I am.
I agreed.....to an extent. In that I would move house, he would continue to live and work here (where I live now) and we would see how it goes.
So today he was supposed to come and have dc in the morning so I could go to an appointment and also fix my washing machine. He rang me last night pissed up from pub (same old, same old), didn't turn up this morning, then sent me a text trying to manipulate me into thinking that the arrangement hadn't been in place at all, I was mistaken. I told him I wasn't and not to lie about it, he said I was "a bore" to "shut up about it" and ended with "I let you down today because I could tell you weren't serious yesterday (I was), you were obviously so ungenuine (I wasn't)" and started ranting about my "affair" (someone I saw for a few weeks after we finished).
Well done if you got through this but I am feeling all rubbish inside again and angry with myself for letting my guard down. I don't want to row with him when he arrives to pick up dc but I know he will try to engineer one. Just need some clever cool answers. I find it hard to keep a clear head when he starts.
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Oh give me a clever answer for this horror of man will you please?
ohboreoffwhydontyou · 16/08/2010 11:37
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