Apologies in advance for long, self-pitying whinge!
We have a wonderful son aged nearly 7 months. My husband doesn't have any family, and mine are completely useless. The few things my mum has done for us (making us lunch when our son was 1 week old, giving us a lift home from the hospital), she has done very begrudgingly and complained about. We have had to cope alone from day 1 and I am so jealous of my friends whose families rally round to help them out when they have their babies.
I am proud of how far we have come on our own, but it's tough, and I can't help feeling cheated and rather bitter about it all. I'm starting to find it difficult to be happy for people who have close, loving families who look after them.
Is anyone else coping alone? How do you come to terms with the resentment? When does it all start getting easier?
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MamaLazarou · 15/08/2010 15:12
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