God im gutted. found at 3 random bank statements today from 2010, 2009 and 2008, 3 seperate ones totalled nearly £1200 on live sex shows on the internet. One was from when our first son was only 3 months old. In feb i found out he was having a "virtual affair" with some woman on the net from the philapines. He apparently told her he loved her and it got out of hand. In the past i have paid off his debts and believed that we had "money issues" so dipped into my inheritance money from my mothers death to pay for big things and then i find out this. what a mug am i. I am absolutely devestated. he is a lovely father and i thought husband too but now this? I don't know how to proceed. He is on the sofa tonight but where to go next? I do love him but i really dont know what to do. We have 2 gorgeous boys of 2 and half and nearly one. I can't bear the idea of tearing their world apart, we have a lovely house, but I don't know whether i can ever trust him again.
Any advice?
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just found out DH pays for live sex shows on the internet and am devestated.
littlegreenie · 10/08/2010 21:53
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