I'm a newbie, and a man, so please be gentle with me!
I'm looking for opinions and advice re a situation that's arose with my partner.
A little background might help first. I met my partner 12 months ago via internet dating. She had been split for her husband for 2 years prior to this as he had been cheating on her with another women, or so we thought! Well a couple of days ago she got a phonecall out of the blue from a woman saying that her ex husband has been sleeping with her daughter for the last 3 years. Trouble is, her daughter has only just turned 17! As you can imagine this has completely floored my ex as this girl would have been 14 when this all started. The girls mother has said they have contacted the police but have been told the police can only act as of now and as she is 17 it's up to the girl to take it further. My partner has 3 children and this girls is the same age as one of her daughters and were friends so you can see where the introduction will have been made.
I want to help her and support her as much as I can but I don't know what to do. My first instinct is to rip his head off but i know this wouldn't achieve anything. To top it off, he doesn't see anything wrong in what he's done.
Are we being too sensitive about this? Please help!
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i8tlr · 10/08/2010 12:47
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