I've namechanged for this, just in case!
Basically I seem to attract people who seem perfectly normal then turn into total psycho narcissicstic nutjobbers
Ex - having read through the threads here I can now see he has a strong narcissistic streak in him, he 'rearranges' the past to suit his agenda and if confronted with irrefutable proof that he is wrong then his memory conveniently goes. When we split he could not, and to this day still doesn't see, that a 50/50 split between him (has a good job able to progress up housing ladder easily and will inherit a shitload of money in the future) and me/2 kids. He couldn't see that it was unreasonable for him to live his life of luxury yet his children would be the ones that would suffer most, not me.
Friends - over and over again I tell myself I'm not going to have any more close friends. It all starts out fine then they seem to want to spend more and more time with me until they are practically living in my pocket if I don't nip it in the bud. Don't get me wrong I like having good friends and I try to be a reliable friend myself but they really take the piss. The pattern is usually the same - they then do exactly what the (few) men in my life have done - turn into screaming psycho harridans.
Could someone please give me an insight into why I seem to attract these people and what the signs are to look for in them because I have now reached the stage when I don't trust anybody with the exception of my DCs
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Why am I a magnet for nutters?
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magnetfornuts · 01/08/2010 13:15
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