I've been with dh (not v d atm) for 5 years and married for just over a year. We have a dd and both have children from previous relationships. Plus we're ttc....or were....
He's always been a wonderful, loving and trustworthy man, but not any more.
A while ago I found out he was taking anabolic steroids. Found the pills totally by accident and then found evidence of phone sex lines. Confronted him immediately, and we sorted it. He stopped the steroids and said he'd stop the porn. I don't mind porn....it's the secrecy that got me.
Anyway I thought things were going along fine - apparently not. He's had emails from web cam type sites which he wrote off as pre- me, which is fair enough, but the trust still isn't there.
So I've done more digging tonight (he's out). There's a message to a girl in his FB sent items saying he'd love to have phone sex and he's also awaiting confirmation of a phone sex group.
WTF is wrong with the fucking wanker???? We literally got married a 13 months ago. What else is going to come up????
Feel sick to my stomache, shaky and sat here getting as pissed as I can.
Do I confront him now??
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swizzlestar · 16/07/2010 21:11
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