I'm in tears. I have just had a massive argument with H for the second time in a week. He was my soulmate. I spent the most of my teens and twenties single because no-one met my very high expectations.Until I met H.
A few months ago his father died. I know he had a difficult relationship with his father and never felt 'good enough' but since then he has been just horrible.
He has called me names, sworn at me and the DC and hit DS around the face.
A friend of mine came round for dinner last week and was shocked not by how rude he was to her, but by the fact I didn't bat an eyelid.
I asked him this evening if he could make an effort to be nice to her next time she was around.
Cue massive row. He doesn't see why he should be nice to my friends when he works a 60 hour week to keep a roof over our heads.
I told him that as it was important to me, it should be important to him. I have suggested grief counselling or going back to the GP's for ADs (he has a history of depression).
He is just so angry. I don't know what to do. I took my marriage vows seriously but this is not the man I married.
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oshit · 16/07/2010 01:56
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