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DH is being made redundant. I am trying to help with his job hunting as he is very low and we are both stressed as I am pregnant.
The current problem is the company he has been working for has a policy of no references under any circumstances. The most they will do is confirm someone worked there between x and y. This is completely new to me as any place I have ever worked allows its staff to write references. I am really worried about bad this looks on job applications (having no references from most recent employer) and am worried it will snooker his chance of ever being employed again.