I was wondering if anyone had any advice on what to do with a really stressful situation at home.
To give a bit of background, I'm 29 and moved home in April this year to help my mum out with my dad, who was very ill at the time. Unfortunately, he passed away in May, and since then my mum has decided to move out and find somewhere smaller and more manageable.
The house opposite ours was bought in 2010 by a very rich man who wanted to build his 'dream home'. He has been carrying out building work on it on and off since then, and it's still nowhere near being finished. On top of all the dust and muck that is all over our house from their building work, we also have to put up with countless vans and trucks parking across our driveway or on the opposite side of the road, which makes it hard for my mum to leave the house. She has spoken to them on a number of occasions (the builders themselves, the developers and the property owner) but none of them are interested in listening to a single woman in her 60s complain and they do nothing about it.
We live on a private estate, and she has complained to the board of directors numerous times, who have said there isn't anything they can do. Has anyone else had to deal with anything like this before?
As you can imagine, this has been a horrible year for both of us, but my mum especially as she is now having to deal with a lot new responsibilities that my dad used to manage - including trying to sell a house on her own for the first time. The added stress of this has changed her personality completely - she is short tempered and on the brink of tears almost all the time.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm sorry if this isn't in the right sub, please let me know if it needs to be moved elsewhere!
Thank you.
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sarahd100 · 03/11/2016 10:59
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