Well I say new, we've been here 2 years now and it's not a new build, it's an old council built house from the 60's.
It's our first 'own' home - we've only rented for several years before. it was empty when it was for sale, the previous occupant was an elderly man who had gone into a retirement home & the daughter was selling the house. It needed a total refurb, from changing the wet room into a bathroom to plastering all the downstairs walls to redecorating & finally last year splitting the bedrooms. So a lot of work, time and money have been spent!
We've pretty much done what we've needed to and wanted to, maybe there are finishing touches left, but I've acquired this feeling, like I don't feel at home here anymore I don't know if I ever did. You see this house, we took it because it was basically the only one that we could get/afford -in the area where we are, we knew we could get the work done on it.
Don't get me wrong, it's a nice house & we're really lucky to be in this position, trust me I know. It's just that, we since we've been here, there's an atmosphere of stress, low moods, I'm always feeling run down, I've never had so many sore throats!! OH is always stressed & moody, it's nearly always shouty. DD & ds are always quibbling. I wonder if OH is feeling stressed as the mortgage is in his name only - perhaps he feels the weight, he's the main breadwinner & I think maybe he worries too much. It just feels like the house has this atmosphere. OH loves this house, he hasn't an idea how I feel - it would destroy him if he knew how i really feel!
We couldn't afford to move, so that's not an option. Is there such a thing as a house having a bearing on how it makes a person feel? Or is it utter nonsense?
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I don't feel at home, in our 'new house'
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Youvegottobekidding · 29/05/2016 19:37
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