I just need to vent and if anyone has any words of wisdom I would be so grateful. I'll bullet point this so it doesn't turn into an essay:
- First time buyers, we have a 10 month old DD and I've just gone back to work full time in a fairly demanding job.
- We are buying our first home. Our offer was accepted in October, the mortgage application process took forever, useless estate agents and a very slow solicitor means that we have only just started to talk about completion dates.
- But our mortgage offer is only valid for 90 days and this expires in the first week in March.
- The vendors have been great and we have become quite friendly with them, they've pushed their solicitor and I am driving things our end but everything is taking a lot longer than I think it ought to.
- Having just gone back to work, managing this house move, window shopping (until we exchange at least) for the appliances and stuff we need, dealing with buildings insurance, life insurance, suppliers, ... I AM KNACKERED!
- Luckily my DD is an angel and out of all this she has been the element that has given me endless joy and very little stress.
- DH is all "thanks for sorting everything" but yesterday he was quite rude to me because he wants to know what days to book off work (how am I supposed to know!) and now I just feel like curling up in ball in bed and crying/sleeping!
- We're spending this weekend with my MIL for her birthday which involves a very long drive and no opportunity to relax or turn my head off. After yesterday I feel like telling DH to jog on, I'll spend the weekend getting my (shit) nails done and relaxing instead of driving a long way to be told how rubbish I am by MIL.
If anyone can just tell me some good news stories or tell me they know how I feel I would be most grateful. I am run ragged just now.