high sleeper mid sleeper cabin bed argh!

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bigbadbarry Thu 08-Nov-12 14:16:52

We are just about to decorate a room for my nearly-9-year-old DD (up until now she has been sharing with her sister). The room is (significantly larger than the room I had as a child) medium sized - maybe 2.5 x 4m, that sort of size. I think a bed that we could put something useful underneath would be grand but I am utterly befuddled by all the choices out there. Has anybody done this recently and has words of wisdom to offer? High (hard to make in the mornings and change sheets?) vs mid? How is a cabin bed different? Bookshelves/futon for a friend/wardrobes...the only decision I have I think made is that we should pop a little desk under there. But if there is a brilliant one that has other things, the desk could be separate.

Aethelfleda Wed 14-Nov-12 22:49:20

We have a mid-sleeper for our smallest bedroom simply
cos it's the only way we could fit clothes/books/toys into the room. At the same time as the bed. We had a kind chippy friend build it for us, and DD1 loves it. It's not superhigh, prob does make the room look even smaller but it did solve the storage issue really well and short of moving house we wouldn't get more space in there any other way. It's got 8 drawers, 3 small shelves and a double toystore area.

2kidsintow Wed 14-Nov-12 19:47:01

We got a set of the LED low voltage ones and have fastened them to the slats with cable ties. They are secure and don't touch any fabric. And as they are low voltage LED then they don't warm up either.

yawningbear Wed 14-Nov-12 07:08:53

Loving the idea of fairy lights strung though the slats, we just bought a second hand mid sleeper for DD who is nearly 4, so much younger than your DD but she totally loves it, we built it on Sunday afternoon and by 5 she was in pj,s and asking to brush her teethgrin. I had been thinking fairy lights in the den underneath would be lovely but had been imagining some major mishap could occur, but I will try the bed slat idea. Hope your DD likes her new bed smile

Dd age 9 has high sleeper as her room So small it mean Only a bed otherwise . It's fine she loves it cuddles in my bed story wise she rather read to herself

She strips her bed and does try to put sheet on but her big brother often called into help . Vomit wise she just takes bowl up with her

ilovetermtime Wed 14-Nov-12 05:25:19

2kidsintow that's just reminded me of another good point of high sleepers. Because they're a pita to change, it encourages you to get the kids to change their own beds sooner than you may have done and therefore gives them greater independence at an earlier age grin

lljkk Tue 13-Nov-12 23:28:15

Mids sleeper fine, high sleeper nightmare (for reasons listed).

SissySparkles Tue 13-Nov-12 23:19:02

DD has had a mid sleeper since she was 2.5, she's now 5.

It's fine. Changing the sheets is fine and I'm only 5ft3. I potty trained her at night in this bed, so had to do a few middle of the night changes of bedding and it was ok. Luckily she's never been sick <touches wood>

I can still read to her in bed and cuddle her, I just climb into bed with her grin I've even slept in it myself and it's very comfortable.

The under bed space is brilliant, and it means she has some floor space to actually play with her toys. And there's somewhere for her cousin to sleep when she comes for a sleepover.

2kidsintow Tue 13-Nov-12 22:33:00

My DD2 has the mid sleeper with the slide. We have strung fairy lights on the slats under the bed which gives a really good light to read/play by. It is the right height to lean over and give a little hug and a goodnight kiss. I do have to climb up to change the sheets.

DD1 has bunks. Nightmare. She has to change her own bedding and has done for a couple of years now.

bigbadbarry Sun 11-Nov-12 16:06:51

I've just ordered this one because when we went in to look, much as I really liked the one with the proper stairs, they did make it rather huge and were fixed at one end (ie you couldn't reverse it)

Devora Sat 10-Nov-12 20:53:51

My dd has a mid sleeper, one a bit like this but without the tower: www.toysrus.co.uk/Toys-R-Us/Kids-Room/Beds/Pink-and-Lilac-Tent-Mid-Sleeper-Bed-Frame-with-Slide(0065156)

I have to say it's worked really well for us. I'm tall and it comes up to chest level on me, so pretty easy to lean over for cuddles/ reading/ bedmaking. I have the slide, which both my children absolutely love but which can easily get removed when they get older. I have got rid of the cheap and nasty tent that came with it, and made my own curtains from nice vintage fabric.

Underneath we have some storage drawers, and strings of fairy lights, and one of those fold-out seats that converts into a single bed. So it's a lovely place to sit and read and play - like a fairy cave - and also gets used for sleepovers. Children love sleeping under there.

Yes, all the clutter gets thrown underneath, but I think it's FANTASTIC to have somewhere you can hide your mess in a hurry, so no complaints from me there smile

hermioneweasley Sat 10-Nov-12 13:14:09

Marking place

greebo Sat 10-Nov-12 10:01:57

We have had both a high and a mid sleeper and they were both a PITA. Have found the best option is a normal bed but higher legs like this www.warrenevans.com/beds/?fgid=12 but with storage boxes under. we used these www.ikea.com/gb/en/catalog/products/80098516/ much cheaper.

bigbadbarry Fri 09-Nov-12 14:10:39

Thanks - glad to see some people don't hate them!

Ah, magichamster, so somebody actually bought the slide version. grin My DS would be so jealous of yours. LOL!

magichamster Thu 08-Nov-12 23:18:36

Ds has a mid sleeper with a slide from Argos. It's really well made and he loves it, but it's a pain in the backside when they're sick. Changing the bed covers is a pain, but a top tip is to use a double sheet on the single mattress and tuck it round - much easier.

DS has a shorty mid-sleeper from Argos and DD has a high sleeper, from ebay but originally from Ikea, off which we had to lop off 7 inches from the length in order to fit it in her room.

I don't really see the point of them if you have a decent size room, although I suppose a mid-sleeper can get you some extra storage and not be too much of a pain to change. However, our kids' bedrooms are tiny so it's the only way we could fit a single bed in for them, and even then they can only have the 5' 9" x 2' 6" matresses. I wish we could fit a high-sleeper in DS's room to put a wardrobe underneath and give him some more floor space, but his ceiling slopes so there isn't the height. sad

(When we were shopping for DS's he wanted the one with a slide. We pointed out that if he had space for a slide we wouldn't need to buy him a mid-sleeper! Interestingly, I don't think Argos do the slide option any more. grin )

eyestightshut Thu 08-Nov-12 23:00:32

www.hancockbedsnottingham.co.uk/prod.php?prod=196 We got this for DS - it's just the right height for changing sheets without having to bend (I'm 5'6") and for cuddles at night. Loads of storage space and we got it cheaper at bedzrus.co.uk

ilovetermtime Thu 08-Nov-12 22:54:43
ilovetermtime Thu 08-Nov-12 22:53:39

Both my DS's have these: http://www.childrensbedworld.co.uk/p/Gami_Montana_High_Sleeper.htm
And love them.

I get up in them to read a story and have a cuddle and I think they're really cosy, I'd have loved one when I was little! They are a pita to change, but it's not THAT big of a deal.

The built in wardrobe is especially useful I think, especially considering how much wardrobes actually cost!

LimeLeafLizard Thu 08-Nov-12 22:52:17

DS has a cabin bed which he loves. It fits a small cupboard and chest of drawers underneath which is a great space saver. There is also a little gap for a pull out desk, which we don't use so the boys crawl under it and make a den round the back.

Normally it isn't any problem to change the bedding, although I am pg atm and now I have a biggish bump I am getting DH to change it as I can't quite reach.

Overall it was good value for money (50% off in M&S sale a few years ago) and I don't regret buying it.

I also like those beds which have a spare mattress in a drawer underneath.

TalkinPeace2 Thu 08-Nov-12 22:42:52

DS and DD both have high sleepers that they love
DS bed is a second hand Stompa that we bought on Ebay
DD wants to get a normal bed next year (she'll be 15)

mine change their own sheets ...

Startail Thu 08-Nov-12 21:06:18

DD1 has a high sleeper and it almost touches the ceiling. she loves it. she's 14 and has her lap top, ipod books and all manner of junk up there.

It is a pita for all the reasons listed and it's ladder sticks out and attacks your toes every time you enter the room and I bang my head on it rounding up her washing.

Elegantlywasted Thu 08-Nov-12 20:58:15

DD nearly 12 and had her high sleeper for a year, is PITA to change also you need to bear in mind the hassle when you move, depending on how it is put together, it may need to be taken apart and re-assembled, so don't lose the instructions!

We don't snuggle up for a bedtime story anymore, she is far too old for that, or so she tells me. Her bed has a sofa for 2 underneath which converts to a spare bed and a desk which she does use.

Unless you have a large room though they can dominate the room, I think including the frame the one we have is just over 7ft in length.

On the odd occasions when she has been sick she has managed to get down quickly enough and then she sleeps on the spare bed underneath as she can have a bowl by her side or get to the loo quicker.

betterwhenthesunshines Thu 08-Nov-12 19:31:04

The only other thing - if she's 9, she's not far off from wanting to use her room as a separate sitting room when all her friends come over. A mid height bed will be trickier to all sit and chat / do nails on / cast discarded clothes across plan outfits or whatever.

PolterGoose Thu 08-Nov-12 17:59:13

Never ever again for all the reasons mentioned but especially the vomit issue. Cleaning vomit projected from height is not pleasant, you will never find all the vomit however hard you look grin

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