My husband and I are having a debate at the moment over when our DS (3.5 years ) should start school. The issue is not just that our son is a late summer born baby ( August 2006) but that he was born two months early (due date was Oct 2006). Had he born on his due date, he would be starting school in September 2011.
DS has been offered a place at the local primary starting January 2011.
DH wants to turn this down on the basis he thinks the age disadvantage against DS is too great. He wants DS to start in Sept next year, when he is 5.
I can understand his concerns about DS struggling against his older classmates. But my concern is that if is held back and starts with a group of younger children, that he might be bullied for being held back. It is a stigma that he will have to carry for the rest of his school days.
I am looking for views from parents or teachers of summer born/premature children, anything that can help us make a rounded decision. My DH says the evidence is weighed in his favour, but I think it must be based on the individual child, and where they are developmentally.
DS is a very determined character and is able to count to 30, knows the alphabet and can recognises numbers 1-10. He is an outgoing boy so I don't have deep concerns that he wouldn't be able to cope socially with school.Big decision though which we need to make by Friday 17 when acceptances for his school place are due. Many thanks.
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anotherglass · 16/05/2010 19:52
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16/05/2010 23:30
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