My DS1 is currently at the preschool of a large school, where he will move to next year for his reception year. DD1 went to the same preschool last year and is currently in reception and has loads of friends/loves it. However my DS1 is a nightmare, he cries every morning as he doesn't want to go and hasn't made any friends. His teacher tells me that he is v quiet and plays mainly by himself. I am really worried re: next year as it will be a whole day and he is already very young (August born) and it breaks my heart thinking of him on his own. Yet when he is out of school, say in any other social context, he is very sociable, he always makes friends and is enthusiastic about seeing them. He does hate noise and is very quiet though, maybe the hustle and bustle of a school environment might be the problem. I have considered moving him to our local very small rural village school, but logistically this could be a nightmare for us so I am a bit loathed to do that. Does anyone have any experience of a quite DS and how they have worked with him/the school to make things a little better? What spurred me to write this is that this afternoon he had his nursery christmas party and he really didn't want to go. DH said he cried his eyes out when he dropped him off and all the other kids looked really excited/couldn't wait to go.
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emy72 · 14/12/2009 13:39
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