My DD is a August baby and started school at 4 yrs and 4 weeks. Our local school has the policy that all children start at the same time, so she started school at the begining of September; had two weeks of mornings and straight to full time.
Whilst she is doing well educationally speaking (she is in the top group/stream) I am concerned about her coping emotionally and socially.
I am seeing a change in her behaviour, normally resulting in her being tired. She is over emotional, crying and having tantrums again-almost like a two year old.
I have spoken with the school about my concerns in the first half of term, when I had to remove my daughter from a birthday party because her behaviour was really so bad. I left with her screaming hysterically and wretching.
At school I am getting no feed back at all as to how she is settling, and have heard other mums complain that they have no idea how their children are settling in.
the situation has come to ahead with the teacher calling me aside in the playground, telling me DD had bitten someone. She couldn't tell me the situation, as she didn't see it, nor know who it was or why it happened. I was shocked as this isn't normal behaviour.teacher went on to say DD is really 'all that naughty' but she doesn't always listen whilst sitting on the carpet and can be a bit bossy with her classmates and tells them off.
I am frustrated because I feel I have no feed back from her school, the mornings are manic in the classroom and you don't get a chance to have a chat with the teacher/ta and at the end of the day the class gets led out the door and there is no teacher/parent interaction there.
I have an issue with general communication within the school. DD had a large nosebleed and came home in different clothes. I only knew what had happened because DD told me when I noticed her clothes and dried blood on her nose.I spoke to the head of year and told her that I felt it was an important thing to be told about, and she agreed and said as the class teacher was new she may not have realsied blah blah blah...
I am trying very hard not to over react to all of this. The teacher is new and all the parents have commented on her lack of interaction with them.
I could go on but this is turning into a novel! I am worried because my DD has a school birthday party to go to today and I just don't know what her behaviour will be like. This will be her first school party and I don't think I could face dragging her out kicking and screaming infront of all her classmates, if she behaves badly.
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DD behaviour changes since starting school
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littlemoog · 07/11/2009 09:17
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