Ok, I am not sure I am going to make much sense in this post but dh is away and I need to sound off as I am upset!
My sweet ds started reception this year. He is 4, 5 in April. He was at the nursery attached to the school for two terms last year and the whole class have moved up to reception so he knows his classmates well. But I think he is finding the move to reception really hard. He has been quite tearful and not really talked about it much, whereas in the last term of nursery he was happy, chatted about friends at school etc.
This term he has gone to bed in tears a few times, sobbing he misses me and his sister. He says how his friend said he didn't want to be his friend anymore (standard stuff i know!) but he just seems flat, compared to last term. I suppose it seems like he is lost.
Tonight he has sobbed and sobbed. He told me how he got told off in assembly for talking. I know this has really upset him as he said he didn't ever want to get told off again. I know this is part of learning, that this is what happens at school and how it is important he learns new boundaries etc, but I think what is worrying me is how I handle it. I want to comfort him as he is only 4 and he is in a big new world. Has anyone got any tips on how I can help him settle better.
And goddammit why did no one tell me parenting can be so heartbreaking?
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Ds finding reception difficult. Anyone got any tips?
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luckywinner · 13/10/2009 20:35
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