My dd1 4.5yrs has just started reception and seems to be enjoying herself. She was really enthusiastic but now seems a bit quieter about things which I thought was to be expected after the novelty factor has worn off a bit.
At tea time tonight she suddenly said that a boy at school said he was going to kill her if she didnt kiss another boy in her class. She wasnt upset, but pensive, and asked me if she really had to kiss him if she didn't want to. She said another girl (older) told them to go away. I told her she never has to do anything another child tells her to, and to tell the teacher.
I can't tell you how upset I am, and I have to wait the whole weekend before seeing someone at the school. I really don't want to over react, I know they are young children but how do I approach this? Are older children really this manipulative at this age, scaring young ones into doing things for their own pleasure. Or is this just normal playground behaviour that I have to get used to and encourage my dd to stand up for herself at this young age. Is this bullying? Shouldn't the younger children be more closely supervised?
Please help I have been in tears over this.
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tinateaspoon · 25/09/2009 21:06
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