Ds is 8 and is in year 4 at school have never had any real problems with him and has always had very good reports.
Today his teacher asked to have a word with me on picking ds up and she said that a parent had phoned up the school this morning to say that ds is bullying her child and that we are talking physical bullying kicking. hitting etc.
The child in question is in year 1 and is also the younger brother of a boy in ds's class.
I was quite surprised by this allegation and so is ds's class teacher as its not something she herself would expect of ds I must point out that it wasn,t her that confronted ds after the phone call was recieved but the teacher in charge of the other year 4 class why that was I do not know.
Apparently ds admitted to it straight away.
I have questioned ds and he says that its the two brothers that bother him and that when he tries to go off and tell the teacher they both block him.
Now when all of the children are coming out of school the older brother seems friendly enough towards ds and I don,t detect any nastiness at all and the younger brother who ds is supposed to be bullying seems fine around ds if anything I get the impression that the older lad really wants to be pally with ds but ds is not that bothered.
I can,t help but feel that its just children messing around and maybe something has gone on but not really bullying.
I do suspect that the parenst of these two brothers may have a bit of a reputation for this sort of thing amongst other parents but I am not completely sure so I need to try and find out a bit more about what sort of family they are.
I do know that the older brother is known as smelly so and so and the family have a reputation for been dirty, unkempt, and I suspect this has left the children open to some bullying at school.
I also know that ds has been influenced into calling the older lad smelly because other classmates do it and I have told him that is wrong this was before the allegation.
I had asked ds why he had admitted it if not guilty and he said because he would have got into worse trouble, as it is he has two detentions.
So how do I handle this now do I just ride it out and see what happens and only investigate further if any more allegations are made against ds.
Ds did come home with a red mark on his arm today said that the younger brother had bitten him.
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ds accused of bullying a younger child
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crazedupmom · 15/09/2009 23:01
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