My DD1 is 7 and at a small village primary.There are 5 girls in her yr group.Since she started school she hasn't really made friends with the others.In reception I helped in her class and the girls WERE very cliquey and real little madams.She is very quiet and I think frightened of them.She plays a little with the younger girls but the older ones try and break them up. things haven't really improved friendshipwise over the 3+ years she has been there.I have asked the teacher many times if she is doing something to make the others dislike her.The teacher always says no.It is the other girls who are very pushy.When I see her at playtime she will sometimes approach the other girls and ask to play and they will all chorus 'we are not playing anything' or else run away.Or occasionally they will let her play but change the rules to subtly bully her.The teacher says she will no longer speak aloud in class and reads so quietly in guided reading that she can't be heard.
She use to play with the boys a bit but they are getting to an age where they are very rough.She often is getting pushed over of punched.One day her cousin stung her in the face with a nettle.Yestreday she came home with a headache and eventually said he had kept chasing after and bouncing a basket ball on her head.
she has had no trouble at all making friends on holiday and at out of school clubs at Brownies all except one of the girls in her class are there and they are OK with her .However just recently I have noticed she lacvks confidence making friends here too.
She keeps asking if she can change schools.I am beginning to feel this has all gone on too long now and that I should insist teh school takes notice.
She is doing OK academically - top table for everything. She is no 3 out of 4 children in our family
Any advice please.It has been too easy to let this drift
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Advice about yr3 girl and frier friendships/confidence or lack of !
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katiestar · 01/05/2009 14:10
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