Whst do people tell their children about telling tales? We have a mantra in our house "You only tell tales if you or someone else is really hurt or really upset"
My ds got into big trouble at school yesterday - once because he was crawling under some bushes in an out-of bounds bit of their field (out of bounds very sensibly because it gets very muddy very quickly) and one of his friends told the teacher. Then, after he was told off, someone teased him for being a cry-baby, he told her to shut up and someone else told on him and he got sent to the Head. The person he told to shut up said "OK then" and got on with her work!
I have no problem with him being told off - I'm just interested in the tale telling. If one of mine had told a teacher in either of the circumstances I've described (and I know I've got the whole story because both the tale tellers told me about it in the playground later!!) I would be telling them they shouldn't have. What do people think?
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seeker · 04/04/2009 10:35
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