I think the obvious solution is to ask to her to chose people to invite round for tea but I work full time and obviously can't expect my childminder to offer said children playtime and tea.
I could never invite my dd over to one of their houses because
a) I'm just not that sort of person
b) I don't really know any of the mums
I feel v guilty that dd feels lonely because all the other mums seem to know each other and so the children have long established friendships.. I don't know any of them really and feel this is why dd is often not invited to parties/round to play etc
I could potentially leave work a couple of hours early maybe every thursday for 3 weeks (meetings permitting) or something like that but would one play date with 3 different children be enough to initiate a friendship? maybe she'll get a return offer?
and what if she asks them and they say they don't want to come? (my anxiety their not hers)
She's a really lovely kid, one of those people in life that just don't have a bad bone in their body but I think possibly a little quiet at school and dominated by her 'best friend' who doesn't allow her to play with anyone else.
I've told her to try and talk to one new person in her class everyday and I've told her that they probably feel nervous like she does but if she talks to them first they will think she is brave and confident and frinedly and then they will speak back to her. I've also told her that if her that she must tell her 'best friend' she is allowed to play with anybody she wants and that they can all play together.. no idea if I've done the right thing
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DD (6yo) has asked me to help her make more/some friends - how?
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mascaraohara · 18/03/2009 09:28
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