Just had ds1's parents evening. He is an August baby so the youngest in his class and quite young for his age in some ways too. He is and always has been very impulsive and has little control of his emotions, if he feels something you see it! I was very worried about him starting school as he seemed so young still and you need to approach him in a certain way to get results, come down too hard or try and force him and he gets very upset and cross. His teacher is lovely and seems to really 'get' him. She sees all the wonderful things about him that I see and understands how he works and how to handle him as it were so I have a lot of faith in her. She actually said today that she loves him to bits and he is a little ray of sunshine in her class!!
Despite seeming young in his spontanaiety he is able at times to really focus well on something if it gets his attention. I remember at playschool his keyworker commenting on how on ocassion if something really captured his attention he could sit for a good 10 minutes or more completely focused on 1 activity.
He is doing very well with his phonemes and blending and his numeracy. Not brilliant or anything but for his age and the level he entered school at he is coming on really well.
So his teacher today said shes not sure whether next year he would be better going into a mixed class or a year 1 only class. Mixed would be more play based which might suit him better and allow him to take a slower pace with less pressure. However his literacy and numeracy is coming on well enough for him to be in a yr 1 class and she said his concentration and understanding of school rules and procedures is also coming on really well, if he went in a mixed class this would stay pretty much the same whereas in a yr 1 class he could carry on progressing and get even better iyswim.
She said they have until mid may to decide and asked me to have a think about what I would like and said she would watch him to see how much more he progresses.
Part of me wants him to be in the yr 1 class so he can come on more and I'm a bit worried a mixed class is sort of like, well not a step back but not really a step forward iyswim. But at the same time I really want whats best for him, I dont want him to be pushed too hard and get demotivated and give up trying.
So I wondered what other people's experiences were. Has it helped or hindered? What were the negatives or positives? Any teachers with any advice about the pros and cons would be great.
I realise my decision wont be definitive but it does seem like they want my opinion and it would be nice to be a bit more informed and also better able to understand whatever decision they do come to.
TIA and sorry this is so long, I could talk about my little boy all day
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Mixed yr 1/reception class or yr 1 only. Your opinions and experiences please
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Pesha · 26/03/2008 21:52
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