Not very nice I know, but it really is becoming a problem.
DS went to a new school (Yr 3) this year which only a handful of children from his old school went to, including a set of twins. Twin A was in his class last year, and really used to 'bug' DS (he used to complain to me all the time about it). This boy is silly and immature. he is always pulling DS's clothes/ pulling his bag off his shoulder/ trying to wrestle with him etc... (in an attention-seeking way, not a bullying way, IYSWIM)
When they moved schools I specifically asked that DS was in a different class to this child, and he was. Problem is that his twin brother, twin B,(whom DS likes, and is much nicer/ sensible) is now in DS's class so he still sees both boys.
I thought the problem had mostly gone away, but yesterday I went into school to help with a drama event/ workshop (both Year 3 classes) and saw that twin A is still annoying:
- kept sitting beside DS on floor (even after DS had moved away)
- fiddling with DS's clothing/ pulling his laces etc
- kept talking to DS when they were meant to be listening and got them both into trouble
and so on
He's like a yappy little terrier peeing on your leg that you just can't shake off.
Moreoever, I get the impression the other kids don't like him much, so when he's around DS they seem to steer clear, which is obviously not good for DS's friendships .
After talking to DS last night I really think it's getting him down, But I don't know what to do?
- have tried role-playing with DS some ways of saying 'please stop it' / leave me alone etc but he finds it hard
I wondered whether I should say anything to the twins' mum? I get the distinct impression she is encouraging her sons to 'be friendly' with DS though (they go to lots of same clubs/activities etc).
Sorry - a bit long