My DD (7) started a new school in September. She says she likes the school more than her old one, seems to have made lots of friends - goes on plenty of playdates etc, school say she is doing well and happy in class BUT over the last month she has started crying every morning at drop off. It's getting worse quite quickly and we're now at the point where the teacher has to prise her off us and take her in.
The school is quite a bit bigger than her old one and in the mornings we have to take her into the playground and then all the parents hang around with their kids until a bell rings and then they line up in their classes and their teachers come out and take them in. DD is fine right up until the moment they ring the bell then all hell breaks loose.
Her teacher says she is fine again quite quickly.
We've talked to DD about it and she's not really able to explain why she gets upset. She says she likes school but misses us and that her heart starts to pound when we leave so I think it is probably separation anxiety.
We've tried having DH take her instead but it makes no difference. Same with reward charts. We try not to make a big deal of it and just basically give her a quick hug, tell her 'no more tears' and leave.
It's heart-breaking seeing her so upset and it seems to be escalating really quickly so I'd really appreciate any ideas to help break the cycle.
DD is the smallest in her year and one of the youngest and I'm a bit worried that she'll end up isolating herself from the other children if this carries on.
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Help pls - Yr 3 DD hysterical at school drop off every morning!
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eeyoresgrumpierfriend · 02/11/2016 09:44
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