I have followed the press interest about Summer born children and how they are disadvantaged compared to children who are born earlier in the year and wrestled with whether dd1 (August 2011) was ready for reception. In the end, after exploring various options like flexi-schooling, I sent her.
She enjoys school, has made friends and has learned a lot. However, even now I have reservations as to whether I made the right decision to send her so young. She's exhausted this term and her behaviour has dipped. I don't feel like she's made progress in reading and writing since Easter due to this. 'We've worked hard together on her reading but it's a slog tbh and we just don't seem to have enough time to do all the things I'd like to do with her like bike riding, swimming, days out etc that I would have been doing if she was still at nursery part time.
Today I got her school report and she got "expected" against everything. On the one hand this is good, obviously, as she is clearly not falling behind. On the other hand, it puts her in that middle category of kids that do not raise any concerns but who can fail to reach their full potential. I have high hopes for my dd and can't help but feel she'd be exceeding expectations if she was a bit older and ready to apply herself a bit better.
School are always telling me how capable and articulate she is, and how challenging but rewarding she is to teach (she's a stubborn monkey, with some hyper-active behaviour traits - I've posted about them before). I don't want to let her down. I have heard year 1 is a big step up from reception. Is she ready? I don't suppose there's much I can do about it if she's not, as she'd be heartbroken not to move up with her class, but I still wonder if flexi-schooling might have suited her, and whether I should have pushed for it. And is there anything I can do over the Summer to help her transition without wearing her out?
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longestlurkerever · 01/07/2016 10:32
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