My DD id in year 4; she is doing very well at school according to the teacher; we started tutoring to have the options open for secondary school. Tutor thinks she is bright and said she doesn't know why she is not in the top set at maths; however I do notice she tends to get a bit stressed when she doesn't know the answer to a question; the tutor set a short homework every week. Her current school doesn't set much homework; I started to think she doesn't got the right aptitude to study and that private secondary is not the right choice for her if she gets stressed about something she doesn't know or if she doesn't know the answer straight away. Should I not waste my time trying to prepare her for private secondary and go just for the state secondary.? Or should I encourage her? When I see her getting stressed about something she doesn't know I convinced myself everyday she won't cope with the work at a high selective secondary even if she does get in; however I would love her to have the best education we can offer her, all the sports and extra curricular activities they have. The state school is good but doesn't have many facilities; the majority of her friends will be going there.
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