I know that parents are not always good witnesses. I know that home and school are 2 different places. But what on earth do you do when the child that you see at home is not the same one that the teacher sees at school?
I often get complaints from the teacher saying DD couldn't do something at school. We sit at home, she does it. Teacher says DD doesn't seem to understand something at school. At home, she explains it to me before we even start. At the beginning I shrugged it off. Maybe DD just needed an extra practice. Maybe DD wasn't listening when the teacher explained it. Maybe DD just feels a bit more confident at home than in class. I send in the work that DD does at home and it comes back with a happy face at the bottom from the teacher. But it keeps on happening.
Last time we talked nothing was really resolved. It was like a panto yes she can, no she can't, yes she can, no she can't. Either DD is doing a jekyll and hyde act, or the teacher just sees her in a way that I don't. Either way, another six months of this will seem like a lifetime. Learning, behaviour, ability etc, it probably doesn't matter what the 'problem' is, from your experience is there a better conversation to have?
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when the child at home does not match the child at school
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tryingtogetagrip · 19/01/2016 12:02
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