My son is a young 4 (August) who started school in September. He is toilet trained in the day, but still wears pull ups at night. He was totally dry daytime all through his first half term but has had an issue renumbering to go to the loo in the last two weeks. As far as I can tell, it's just that he's very stimulated and excited at the moment and is just getting distracted. He loves school and hasn't demonstrated any anxieties or unhappiness about it.
School have been great about it, but he had two accidents at after school club (not run by the school) and after getting rather passive-aggressive calls/emails about it, manager emails today to say he shouldc leave after next week. That's plenty of time for a set of ft-working parents to arrange alternative wraparound care, and for two kids as I'm not having my daughter have separate arrangements.
Anyway, husband's going to look at Ts &Cs and the emails and consider a way forward because DS could be absolutely fine after this week and maybe they'll reconsider (he's already had far fewer incidents this week). I've explained to him that the problem is even if DS does sort himself out, I'm the one who will have to scrabble about looking for alternatives if he has another incident and she pulls the plug. So is it mostly a matter of looking for paperwork that says we have to have more notice? And should we look at Ofsted guidance - they had no wipes, gloves for staff or spare clothes (I have now provided spares and wipes myself) and if they have Reception kids I'd imagine they ought to be expected to have clean-up gear just in case, surely?
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After school club throwing out son for two toilet accidents?!
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Echobelly · 13/11/2015 20:41
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