Our eldest DC is in year 2 at our nearest village primary school. We are in a rural community and, like several others who attend the school, we don't live in the village itself (though many do) and are just over a mile away. We also have a 2yo.
Problem is that there are a number of things regarding the school we are unhappy about but can't decide whether they warrant a move to a school that is not our most local iyswim. I am being deliberately vague about the details but I'm not talking about one big issue (we wouldn't hesitate to move DC if we felt there was a safety issue/bullying that wasn't resolved for e.g.)but several smaller problems. Things like small pool of friends (DC is not unhappy about this but does struggle to find others the same age to gel with), feel that differentiation is not happening as it should (teacher agreed when we spoke with her that XYZ needed to be done but it hasn't happened- in fact, there have been several empty 'promises' on matters that we have raised but have never been properly resolved or mentioned again by staff).
Anyway, part of me feels that if DC is 'happy' (and they are just that- fairly happy at, but not excited by, school) then to just leave it. Although our location means that DC doesn't 'play out' with children from school it is still our nearest school and means that playdates (not many admittedly- small pool of friends issue) are fairly easy to sort out.
The other school that we would possibly consider is around a 20 minute drive away. I feel the education there may be more suitable- more sparky, lively and more up DC's street and it is bigger- so more children to potentially be friends with. But, are we just going to be avoided with regards to playdates because of the distance? Is it just going to be frying pan/fire scenario?
When do the disadvantages of a small, local school outweigh the benefits?
Would like to hear experiences from others who have had a similar dilemma.
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patchworkhill · 27/05/2015 13:19
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