We are planning my DS's birthday party. We have decided to have it in a local (small) hall as we live in a veeeeeery small flat. My DS is very shy and finds it difficult making friends - he gets a bit worried and upset bout it. There have been a lot of birthday parties in the class and my DS hasn't been invited to most of them. I thought this party might be an idea to invite a lot of children so that he might make more friends and feel a bit more comfortable in the class. We have invited 20 out of 30 children (cannot have more than 25 due to entertainer restrictions). We would be happy with few children, but I genuinely worry that no one will turn up at all so we thought we should overdue it and hope for half to accept! (I work and so am not at the school gates). But I feel bad for the 10 we haven't invited, just as my DS was sad to have not been invited to other parties. One of the two parties we went to had a similar size, but ALL the girls and a few boys, including my DS. We are not inviting all the boys as we couldn't invite any girls then, and he has a few girl friends he wants to invite (and the one all boy party we went to was extremely rough and rowdy, which would make my son very uncomfortable). I feel awful though, I don't want to the rude and inconsiderate Mum and make things even worse for him! I can't believe I am worrying so much about this....any advice on birthday party etiquette? Am I breaking the birthday party rules? ;)
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