I'm going to have to change a few minor things here as I've asked a lot of my friends opinions on this but Im still bothered about it.
In the smallest nutshell I can do! I dropped my daughters pe kit off to school. Her ta saw me and came over to tell me that she had great news that she was pregnant. There was another little boy putting his shoes on next to her (context!) she said she was doing a show and tell on her scan next week.
I profusely congratulated her, said DD loves babies and all that stuff, told her not to work too hard and left.
When I saw DD later I asked if she knew her TA was pregnant in a jovial style and said you must congratulate her tomorrow what lovely news!
It was all 10 second stuff, I thought very little about it and that was that.
The next day I got a really shitty email from her TA saying that she was 'interested' to hear that DD knew about the pregnancy, it wasn't her news to tell and basically I have ruined her surprise show and tell next week. She also said she had taken my DD outside and made her promise not to mention it again.
When DD left school she shouted at me and told my the TA had told her I was very naughty to share the secret and I had done a bad thing. The TA had made her 'pinky swear' in the corridor not to tell anyone about her 'secret'.
I honestly did not hear her tell me it was a secret. If she had i would have definitely respected it although would have thought a little weird she told me at all! I rarely see her or talk to her apart from polite pleasantries.
I told DD that I did not hear her TA say it was a secret but that I don't think it was a terrible thing I did. DD is a bit cross still, and I was a bit worried so I said 'do you have any other secrets with xx?' And she shouted 'no!' V abruptly. I asked would she tell me even if she did, and she said no, never
The whole thing has flummoxed me! apparently she has told many of the parents to keep the secret but some she told in front of their own children!
I'm bothered about the secrets tbh. Or am I over reacting? What would you do / say? I do feel bad about what's happened but it all seems a bit of a crazy situation! Am I not getting something here? Should I be apologizing? How would you fix it with DD?
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Ohnostop · 22/03/2015 16:31
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