4yo DD started reception in September and has since then become extremely challenging. Suddenly, she refuses to listen to a word I say. She literally seems to be igoring me half the time. I say something to her sometimes up to four times and then I yell my request at her. This usually gets her upset cos I yelled.
Not only has she just not being listening to me or doing what she's told, she's also been talking way much more than normal. It seems like she doesn't stop for a breath! And when anyone else tries to talk she buts in and then won't let anyone else talk. We worked on this so much last year and she was learning well and waited her turn to speak. She used to put her hand up to show she wanted to talk. I would take her hand so she knew I knew she wanted to talk.... if that makes sense. Now as soon as I try to talk in a conversation with anyone including her she just talks straight over me. And if I try to ask her to wait her turn she talks louder and faster!
And that takes me onto the talking back. Oh my gosh! She argues with me and talks back so bad! She never used to do this! In one month she's suddenly become a nightmare! I get up in the morning dreading interacting with her.
I try to remind her to wait her turn, to not talk when I'm talking, to not talk back to me or argue when I've asked her to do something etc but it's not working. I've even tried praising her when she does wait her turn etc but that doesn't work either.
I don't know if timeouts are going to work for these circumstances. I don't even know if these are developmental issues or a backlash from starting reception. I just know that I don't want to leave them unchecked because if she's like this at home chances are, unchecked this behaviour will spill over into the classroom. She's a very intelligent little girl with lots of friends. She settled into school quickly despite being an August baby and I can't keep her away from wanting to read her school books and practice writing. I just don't understand these behaviour changes.
I just want me sweet little girl back cos I really don't like this pushy, rude little chatterbox.
Sorry for the rant.
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cheekycherryza · 27/10/2014 06:54
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