They want £18 for a visit to a farm. If we were means tested we wouldn't look poor but our unavoidable out-goings or perhaps simply our priorities mean that we cannot afford this.<br><br>We have a disabled child and our choices with regards to living in the right place for the right school, facilitating the right therapy etc. mean that our cost of living is extortionate despite having a reasonable income.<br><br>What happens. If we don't pay do we have to arrange childcare for our dd? Or well, what happens?