To cut a long story short: Ds1 has some anxiety issues. He's quite negative about himself too. He also has some developmental delay (finds it difficult to maintain focus, but is not disruptive, prone to daydreaming, forgetful, disorganised etc.). Anyway, suffice to say his teacher is not hugely sympathetic, is not one for much praise or encouragement (although she does try, it's just not natural) and can be quite shouty. The other day he got sent to the deputy head's office during breaktime to re-do some work which he had done 'wrong'. (I don't think he understood, he actually did more than asked, but not exactly what was asked).
He has been having some problems with eating, probably due to the anxiety. I've been wondering whether to address it with the teacher as whenever she says anything about him to me, it is always negative even if she is trying to be a bit funny, like rolling eyes and "forgot his lunch box AGAIN." Tonight he said he doesn't want to go to school because his teacher shouts at him. (He never says he doesn't want to go to school). I am not sure how to bring this up. I am really non confrontational, but I feel I need to say something as it is really affecting him. I know she may be going through her own stuff too.
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Shouty teacher upsetting ds1 (Y3). WWYD?
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MerryMarigold · 24/03/2014 20:44
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